Yes, You! YOU ARE A QUEEN! But sometimes, a queen needs to adjust her crown, right? Being badass confident can be so attractive, but for some, it can still be a dream, But not anymore! Here are 13 confidential confidence tips to help you slay like a queen.
The journey from slouching back to a straight backbone might feel challenging, but it’s not impossible because you have me with you!
Eight months ago, while reinventing my life, I came across something I always lacked and wanted to foster- Confidence. I kept looking for that formula to help me go from 0 to 100 So I read nearly 100 blog posts, heard 1000 opinions, and whatnot. I never found that “perfect recipe,” but I got the one I needed the most.
It was that EVERYTHING IS INSIDE YOU. Yes, you are powerful, confident, intelligent and beautiful. All you need to know is how to discover them. Everyone around you will make you feel that you’re not good or confident enough, but that should never let you down.
Because you, pretty girl, should know your WORTH, and your WORTH is priceless.
So now, without wasting even a second, uncover these excellent confidence tips you wish you had known earlier.
WHY DO YOU NEED TO BE CONFIDENT?
Here are some essential reasons to know why you need to be confident.
1. PERSONAL EMPOWERMENT
Being confident helps you to become independent in every means- financially and emotionally. A study reveals that Self-assured women are more likely to undertake new challenges, express their opinions, and maintain a clear vision for their futures
2. HEALTH AND WELL BEING
Confidence contributes to mental and emotional well-being, reducing stress and anxiety and promoting overall resilience and happiness. and You don’t need a guy who can make you feel happy.
3. BREAKING STEROTYPES
Confidence challenges traditional gender stereotypes that portray women as passive or lacking in leadership abilities, promoting gender equality and diversity in leadership roles.
4. PROFESSIONAL IMPROVEMENT
In professional settings, confidence is often synonymous with competence. Women with a strong sense of assurance are more poised to negotiate salaries, seek promotions, and hold leadership roles.
WHAT IS THE GOLDEN RULE FOR CONFIDENCE?
Russ Harris describes The golden rule for confidence in his excellent book “The Confidence Gap,” which signifies that the actions of confidence come first; the feelings of confidence come later. This means that you should do something that makes you feel confident to be confident.
Even positive psychology reveals that good things do not make you happy; your happiness causes good things to happen. This means that your actions and your mood will help you to be more confident, happy, and self-assured.
“LETS STEP INTO YOUR CONFIDENT GIRL ERA”
13 CONFIDENCE TIPS THAT YOU NEED TO SLAY
Here are 13 confidence tips for a woman full of confidence.
FIX SMALL THINGS FIRST
Yes, you heard me right. Starting and fixing minor things first will eventually help you become confident. Write down your daily routine and ask yourself, what am I doing wrong? How can I improve them?
Write down the list of things that need to be changed, which will help you to make your day productive. Your productivity will make you feel confident, enabling you to have better and more optimistic remarks about yourself.
FEEL GOOD ABOUT YOURSELF
Feeling good about yourself is another way of being confident, but how? Let’s start with your body; fix your posture first. Girl, tell me, how will you feel confident when you have a slouching back? A face full of acne? Hair fall? Just think about how to ace everything you lack and devise a plan.
How many hours have you been sleeping? What are you eating? How many days have you meditated this week? These things might feel unrealistic when you’re starting because confident women are usually seen as perfect and don’t need to do anything, but here is all the effort. Work on yourself and Invest in yourself because no one else will.
KNOW WHAT’S INSIDE YOU
You cannot be confident if your inner self is constantly in conflict. You have to know what is inside you. How are you feeling mentally? What is stopping you from achieving what you want to do?
It would help if you had complete control over what you’re doing, why you are doing it, and how you will do it. That CLARITY is essential. And this is the critical element that you will notice in confident women- they know what they are doing.
SURROUND YOURSELF WITH CONFIDENT WOMEN
There is a great saying: You show me your friends, your environment, and I will show you your future. Does the environment matter? YES IT DOES.
Surrounding yourself with confident women will give you another level of confidence: exposure to learning how they are so confident and what habits they have that make them confident. Girl, confidence is an acquired trait that is not inherited, and there is nothing that cannot be accrued.
KEEP YOUR HEAD STRAIGHT
I love this dialogue, and can I please repeat it: What do you do on those days you don’t feel confident?” Rihanna: “Pretend. Even why not? We cannot be in our golden girl era forever, but queens remain even when they don’t have their crowns.
So keep your head straight even in difficult times. You might need a good cry or a day in bed, but from the next day, you should be back to work; that’s how confident women work.
DEFINE YOUR TERMS
Have I told you that I have my dictionary apart from journaling, where I define terms according to me, like happiness, success, health, etc.? It makes me more confident because It gives me clarity.
It paves the way for me and helps me better develop my core values and principles. Define them yourself, be accountable, and don’t let anyone else do it for you because It’s your life.
POSITIVE SELF-TALK
Positive self-talk can be brutal when your inner self constantly criticizes you. Just wake up, look in the mirror, and say what you feel. Initial days will be frustrating, but once you have the habit of complimenting yourself, believe me, you will love yourself more.
Next time you have a thought: I am so ugly, replace it with I am the most beautiful girl in the world. I need to be more confident. I am the most confident woman, and my body notices me.
KNOW YOUR MINDSET
Tell me, can you grow in a stingy, dull, or hostile environment? Why not? Because you will have and develop the mindset you’re living in.
Knowing your mindset and changing it is another confidence tip no one will tell you. A growth mindset will help you develop entrepreneurial skills, take risks, and have a better life.
FACE YOUR FEARS
Write down all your fears, from public speaking to sky diving or wearing a bikini at a beach. And the next thing you have to do is tick all of them. Letting off of your fear will help you to become more happy because there will be nothing that is stopping you.
Psychology reveals that facing your fears makes you feel more confident because you have validated that you’re worth doing and can do it. And that is why this my one of the favorite confidence tips.
KNOW WHEN TO SAY ‘NO’
Have you ever seen a confident woman without boundaries? Exactly. You have to set your boundaries, too. You don’t have to do the tasks to make someone happy. Moreover, You should know when to say NO. By saying NO, you don’t have to care about what other people will say or think about you.
STOP COMPARING YOURSELF
Why can’t we compare a pen with a highlighter? Because both have their uses. Similarly, you are useless if you compare yourself to someone with a glass body or clear skin
. Competition that brings feelings of envy, regret, or anger is good for no reason. Confident women have healthy competition where they can learn and grow, not just sit on the side with wrinkles on their foreheads.
BE FEARLESS AND BOLD
Being fearless and bold gives you the passion to do things. It allows you to take more risks in life. Trust me; passion is never paired with weakness. Just forget about the world and do whatever you feel is right.
Now that you know the confidence tips, what’s stopping you from implementing them? Wake up and use them to escape your underconfident era.
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